bSmitten
Love. Your Life
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Helping You Find & Keep
the Love You Deserve
Whether you're working on yourself, ready to meet your match, or navigating challenges in your relationship, we meet you exactly where you are.
With tools, guidance, and community to support your next chapter.
Where are you on your Relationship Journey?
Wherever you are in your relationship journey, we have resources,
programs, and community designed to meet you there.
Keep scrolling to learn more about bSmitten: our mission, our approach,
and what people are saying about working with us.
GREAT RELATIONSHIPS DON'T HAPPEN BY ACCIDENT
Dating doesn’t have to be Exhausting & Healthy Love isn’t a Mystery.
At bSmitten, we meet you where you are, whether you’re building self-love, dating and feeling burned out, or working to strengthen a relationship.
Our programs, resources, and community are designed to help you:
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Grow your foundation through supportive community,
groups and guided experiences.
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Date with purpose using our research-based dating-lab system.
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Get the right support with private sessions and tools for every stage of love.
Self - Love
Build unshakable self-worth and break patterns that no longer serve you.
Find Love
Skip the dating burnout and connect with the right people, intentionally.
Keep Love
Strengthen your relationship and deepen your connection.
FIND THE SUPPORT THAT FITS YOUR JOURNEY
Choose Your Next Right Step:
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Live, interactive sessions to help you screen smarter, spot real red flags, and date without burnout; grounded in research, not guesswork.
You’ll Learn:
• How to name your values and identify a compatible partner
• Recognize real green flags with confidence
• How to show up with self-respect, clarity, & zero apology
• What healthy, mutual interest actually looks like (and feels like)
• Spot and avoid low-value connections early
Not ready to try a program just yet
but want to join our Mailing List?
Our Process
At bSmitten It All Begins With YOU
You are the foundation of your relationship, and if that's even remotely shaky that glorious castle you set out to build will more than likely come tumbling down. It's imperative that you get all your ducks in a row if you want to share your life with someone. Once you have a clear idea as to who YOU are at your core, you'll be able to identify your perfect match and your best chance of success over the long term.
Self Love
Who are you, warts and all. What makes you tick and are you able to love and accept yourself completely, despite your perfect imperfections.
Find Love
Identify your core values and align with individuals who reflect those ideals. Be wary of how you get in your own way and set yourself up for failure.
bSmitten
What magic happens when that unique mix of who you are merges with that special someone. The good, the bad, the beautiful and the bold.
We begin by identifying your individual patterns, followed by the alchemy created when you bond with another individual, and then finally what challenges come up over the long haul.
Step 1
Identify Your:
Relationship Strengths
Attachment Style
Personality Type
Emotional Triggers
Self Soothing Techniques
Core Values
Emotional Intelligence
YOU
Step 2
Identify Your:
Personality Match
Deal Breakers
Hard Questions
Compatibility Quotient
Keys to Intimacy
Attraction Type
Chemistry/Magnetism
YOU + ? = US
Step 3
Identify Your:
Attachment Dance
Closeness Pattern
Love Maps
Red Flags
Conflict Resolution Style
Gottman's 4 Horseman
Rules of Engagement
US & BEYOND
Not sure if our program is right for you? Sign up for a complimentary private session where we can guide you to the programs that will be a good fit.
What Women Are Saying:
Ann
“I’ve done a lot of self-help over the years, but this was different. It connected the dots in a way that made everything finally click, like I could actually live the insights, not just understand them.”
Victoria
“dating-lab completely changed the way I approach dating. I used to second-guess everything, now I feel empowered, grounded, and way less likely to waste my time.”
Irene
“This was the first time I felt like someone actually got what I was going through. The tools were practical, the insights were deep, and I left every session feeling more clear and confident.”
Sharon
“I thought my chance at real partnership had passed. But this process felt different from the start; thoughtful, intentional, and deeply respectful. I wasn’t just matched with someone… it aligned with the kind of love I’ve spent years growing into.”
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My Story
I know what it’s like to feel heartbroken, confused, and stuck in patterns you can’t seem to change.
Determined to find a better way, I immersed myself in the research and completed a degree in psychology, sociology and anthropology, with a focus on understanding what fosters healthy, lasting love, and did the hard work of learning to truly love myself.
Along the way, I discovered the building blocks of safe, secure, and aligned relationships and eventually found someone who was ready to meet me with the same depth, accountability, and intention I was bringing. There are still bumps along the way, but I know how to navigate them with confidence and care.
Now, I'm privileged to help others shift old patterns and create the kind of love and their version of life they're deeply committed to living.
FIND YOUR FLOCK
Interested in Leading Your Own bSmitten BookClub?
Calling all Armchair Psychologists and Lovers of Self Help Literature ... if you're OBSESSED with helping your friends with their Love-Life consider hosting your very own bSmitten BookClub.
We provide you with everything you need to get started, including online content, 1:1 support, and monthly Q&A Meetings. Host in you own space, with your own vibe;
Cozy tea parties, or Cosmo Cocktails, everyone is welcome here.
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